tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-71233778706385359962024-02-18T23:19:22.641-08:00Middle Class ConcernsAnyone else noticed South Africa's quick acclimatisation to ‘la dolce vita’ since the end of apartheid? The 60 year long divide between races seems to be a footnote in the daily lives of middle class South African’s. So this is a serious- satirical look at the worries that plague South Africans once they are in a higher income bracket and change social habits. Things, which are really not important, become imperative.Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.comBlogger46125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-88667096574513259742012-06-18T07:27:00.000-07:002012-06-18T07:27:17.227-07:00We have moved<br />
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<em>Middle Class Concerns Blog</em> is over a year old and it's only fair she gets a little revamp. Getting some help from artist, photographer and designer <a href="http://www.wix.com/tumz_22/infiniterush">Tumi Direro</a>. I'll be back (Arnold Schwarzenegger voice). <br />
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In the meantime I'll be posting on my <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Middle-Class-Concerns-Blog/203425606353371?ref=tn_tnmn">Facebook page</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/#!/middleccblog">tweeting</a> about all your winter middle class concerns!Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-77354660246933512292012-03-08T00:47:00.001-08:002012-03-08T00:47:52.549-08:00Joseph Kony 2012<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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2012 is a film and campaign by Invisible Children that aims to make Joseph Kony
famous, not to celebrate him, but to raise support for his arrest and set a
precedent for international justice.</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-6475357106915865652012-02-28T06:11:00.003-08:002012-02-28T06:17:36.109-08:00Pay your dues<div style="line-height: 150%;">
Well well well...could it be? A prayer answered. A
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Pay your dues: it has become lesson number one in
2012. I've spent the past year doing runt work, sending 2 applications a day
and attending interviews with no follow-ups. If you refer to my "<a href="http://middleclassconcerns.blogspot.com/2011/06/pick-me.html">PickMe</a>" post, you'll see that I was getting quite edgy about it. </div>
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The angst had built to a climax in the past couple
of weeks when a friend of mine, <em>Karabo Mafisa</em> said "Phaks, you have to pay
your dues". And like any light bulb moment, I had nothing to reply. I kept
replaying the words like a new motto. Within the same week I was called in for
an interview with a global public relations company. The following week they
sent me a writing assessment; I met the MD and was sent a contract to begin
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In a quick twitter survey, I asked my followers
what their first jobs were and here are some responses:</div>
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-"Worked at a <span style="font-size: large;">film festival</span> and loved it!' -
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-"I was a <span style="font-size: large;">library assistant</span>...it was
alright.I'm now an international criminal lawyer/researcher. I love it!"
-<em>Princess Ailitto</em><br />
-"I was a <span style="font-size: large;">waiter</span> in my first year. Hated the customers but it made some
decent money" - <em>Jasmine </em></div>
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<em>Rod Stewart</em> was a grave digger before he became a
rock star and <em>Beyonce Knowels</em> worked at her moms hair salon whilst singing her
way to fame. So lesson learnt universe, one must start at the bottom to rise to
the top.</div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-33023379917318139532012-02-16T23:30:00.001-08:002012-03-07T06:27:32.226-08:00It must be...<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://jasonmraz.com/">Jason Mraz</a> album cover from the album: Love is a four letter word.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Love balloons by <a href="http://www.jennyvansommers.com/editorial/elle/">Jenny van Sommers </a></td></tr>
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See what I'm doing here: 3 of my favourite images meets the lyrics to "<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?gl=ZA&feature=player_embedded&v=yKzlp1Wh4sg">It must be love</a>" by british pop band <em>Madness</em>. Genius! Happy love month.</div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-66580473470129603052012-02-10T01:04:00.000-08:002012-02-10T01:04:37.970-08:00Sh*t Middle Class Folk Say<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">I recently watched a <em>Youtube</em> video of <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-RtayJQubY">Sh t Hipsters Say</a>. It has lead to this post: a compilation of stuff middle class folk complain about. The quotes are taken from my twitter timeline (<a href="https://twitter.com/#!/middleccblog">@middleccblog</a>) and they're usually followed by #middleclassconcerns #sigh #bleak and the traditional sad face :(. Enjoy!<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">I really want to help others<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>but I love all my clothes<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
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<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">I can’t decide what my </span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">favourite</span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Adele song is<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">I want a poached egg. I can’t poach an egg<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">What do you mean no dessert after dinner?<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Soya vs. Skim milk?<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0in 0in 10pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;"><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">We’ve had to cut down this year…no second vacation<o:p></o:p></span></div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-34442077787005031742012-01-30T23:54:00.000-08:002012-01-30T23:55:30.666-08:00Township Cinderellas<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.youtube.com/embed/qTqaPBTsHOI?feature=player_embedded' frameborder='0'></iframe></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span lang="EN" style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; mso-ansi-language: EN;">An excellent documentation of Western Cape teens born in 1994, the year Nelson Mandela became President and apartheid ended. From the award winning documentary show <a href="http://www.aljazeera.com/programmes/witness/">Witness</a> on <a href="http://www.aljazeera.com/">Al Jazeera</a></span></div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-22184391644515741382012-01-24T02:39:00.000-08:002012-01-25T23:29:18.421-08:00Y.O.L.O<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<div style="line-height: 150%;"><span style="font-size: large;">Happy New Year!</span> I must <span lang="EN-GB" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">apologise</span> for the rather late start in blogging this year but I was actually doing everybody a <span lang="EN-GB" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">favour</span>. You see, since the clock struck <span style="font-size: large;">00:00</span> on <span style="font-size: large;">01.01.2012</span> I've had a dark cloud following me. It must be all those zeros, ones and twos or the fact that I have 3 months before turning <span style="font-size: large;">TWENTY- FIVE</span>. It feels like a crisis of sorts. Consequently, I need a chat with father time and the lady who runs the fountain of youth.</div><br />
<div style="line-height: 150%;">I'm anxious, uncertain, slightly cynical, fraught with worry and hosting all kinds of pity parties throughout the day. Instead of thinking about the things I’ve accomplished, I’m more concerned with the things I haven’t gotten around to. It’s as if I have subconsciously given myself a deadline and now I’m begging for an extension. With this comes a multitude of middle class concerns: Yes, I’ve travelled but not to Asia or Europe. I have a degree but will I ever have my dream job? I know where I want to be in 10 years but I have no assurance that I’m taking the right steps to get there. I read but not more than I watch TV. I eat more than I work out. I have a savings account with no money in it. The only things I own are clothes and books. I have no clear vision of how this year will unfold and there’s nothing like <span style="font-size: large;"><strong>“the stress of not knowing that destroys ones sanity”.</strong></span> </div><br />
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<div style="line-height: 150%;">Having established that, I can only ground myself with the things I know for sure. I have great skin and can no longer afford to sleep with make up on. Exercising releases all my anxiety. I need my body more than it needs me. <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: large;">Thank you</span></i> and <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: large;">please</span> </i>are two very important expressions in any language. A quick prayer for peace and clarity can be more elevating than an hour mass. If I haven’t written down a “to do” list, I’m likely to forget. Being on time is harder than being late. Love trumps fear. Barbie isn’t real. Music is healing. I must write down my epiphanies before they’re overridden by the next fruitless thought. Keep my <em>Facebook</em> page clean. Reading improves my vocab. 3AM is the devils hour. I trip, bite my tongue or bang my toe immediately after having a negative thought. It’s ok to say “no”. </div><br />
<div style="line-height: 150%;">The trending theme for 2012 seems to be <em><span style="font-size: large;">YOLO: You Only Live Once</span></em>. It’s a green light for living your best life and a reminder that anxiety, worry, cynicism and self- pity are not absolutes. </div><br />
<div style="line-height: 150%;">Dear self, get over yourself. Quite frankly you have a lot to be thankful for in the 25 years you've lived.</div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-19612101608656268322011-12-07T23:54:00.000-08:002011-12-07T23:54:10.426-08:00Wish List<div style="line-height: 150%;">Season’s Greetings! Is it too early? I've been singing Christmas carols since mid- November.</div><div style="line-height: 150%;"><br />
</div><div style="line-height: 150%;">I've compiled a lovely wish list to avoid any confusion or unnecessary gifts like home made marmalade jam or pot porrie. This may also fall under my 25th birthday wish list as well as the "<em>because I love Phakamani</em>" wish list which is open throughout year.</div><div style="line-height: 150%;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiN-m_GhyphenhyphenyfOglXETiy7gF4meixH0i0px9QZpfeIgQZQoOjK9ySllM2makVlaKDQJ5z9KbK7qWP1jImyKZa6vEPkmcMkFzw65RyRW34o-CaFjZcBa5jnJlFq_fr5122Vw9LwejyaAIiulEQ/s1600/Floral+blouse%252C+Zara+Sandton.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiN-m_GhyphenhyphenyfOglXETiy7gF4meixH0i0px9QZpfeIgQZQoOjK9ySllM2makVlaKDQJ5z9KbK7qWP1jImyKZa6vEPkmcMkFzw65RyRW34o-CaFjZcBa5jnJlFq_fr5122Vw9LwejyaAIiulEQ/s320/Floral+blouse%252C+Zara+Sandton.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">This blouse from <em>Zara</em> (Sandton) has been frequenting my dreams. I'm floral crazy! It's chique and turns up the heat when wearing slim fitting trousers and I have a giant patent black bag to complete the look.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjmMOwqCj7Z5zvMLGT518YrhoXcRG-0FinOnGNLEWIJohlR_hhqcpz37W4MCJAedX2R1hip4BHUDAD6ZccQlABjmo2srOlhD47e9wiBCcHtrS5Ep5hmwUzG3ZtsGKWi8fSVfueBxcdKyq3Y/s1600/black+fitted+jacket%252C+french+connection.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjmMOwqCj7Z5zvMLGT518YrhoXcRG-0FinOnGNLEWIJohlR_hhqcpz37W4MCJAedX2R1hip4BHUDAD6ZccQlABjmo2srOlhD47e9wiBCcHtrS5Ep5hmwUzG3ZtsGKWi8fSVfueBxcdKyq3Y/s320/black+fitted+jacket%252C+french+connection.jpg" width="213" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">There's something about <em>French Connection</em> clothing that makes my knees quiver. This jacket is probably not available in South Africa as yet but should something similar catch your attention do not delay: buy one now and get my adoration free. I recently purchased a stone coloured <em>Witchery</em> blazer and have to stop myself from wearing it everyday. This blazer would recieve the same attention if not more.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8syi_k7KTX-rz08JGJRYvBwR8qI_-SHnDjkmrqIu1P_o936jl20QPJJSgkpat8WfJ3tw6GP4w4S_msYFcX13CemfuTuyhyGnVl5viGXhIETy8I7pPG6lzTu8FA-SyIzkwiWw2aJNKfbBa/s1600/Woolworths+Country+Road+sandals+available+in+navy+and+coral+R249.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8syi_k7KTX-rz08JGJRYvBwR8qI_-SHnDjkmrqIu1P_o936jl20QPJJSgkpat8WfJ3tw6GP4w4S_msYFcX13CemfuTuyhyGnVl5viGXhIETy8I7pPG6lzTu8FA-SyIzkwiWw2aJNKfbBa/s320/Woolworths+Country+Road+sandals+available+in+navy+and+coral+R249.jpg" width="290" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I spotted this <em>Country Road</em> sandal on a friend and now I want it for myself. It's also available in coral and would go perfectly with my summer nail polish "crispy peach" by <em>Tip Top.</em></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicegUa6ZeLyIiBLAABv-xXiTKdhQ583itQmiOXVzMYII56eTDNHdkLCa0JGlHO3u8AzHSk-Vrqt1VSqPB4yGYm-BOLsXtfIPUslA_FGaq4z7JLFCOnl9eiZ_HWv2zhHK_DWIBA4ESOlDKr/s1600/Aldo+platform+in+stone+R599.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicegUa6ZeLyIiBLAABv-xXiTKdhQ583itQmiOXVzMYII56eTDNHdkLCa0JGlHO3u8AzHSk-Vrqt1VSqPB4yGYm-BOLsXtfIPUslA_FGaq4z7JLFCOnl9eiZ_HWv2zhHK_DWIBA4ESOlDKr/s320/Aldo+platform+in+stone+R599.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><em></em></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Well isn't this just charmingly beautiful. A chunky heal which can be worn to lunch with the girls. Available at <em>Aldo</em> for a sensible R599.00.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"></div><div style="line-height: 150%;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg8YwbqKdBbJA_ahwjmtStVVWBrVzpbpCFWoQCAGp-4dbU4IHCG6CCGbZcy-IZJxHAJp5P2KEyYLY6gfb8tOIZJ_otjoJdKqZtPsY4aKrwQtfn9Mm1Lzxeemu4djDaNxaAQx98EFgutbRxQ/s1600/Celine+burgundy+platforms.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg8YwbqKdBbJA_ahwjmtStVVWBrVzpbpCFWoQCAGp-4dbU4IHCG6CCGbZcy-IZJxHAJp5P2KEyYLY6gfb8tOIZJ_otjoJdKqZtPsY4aKrwQtfn9Mm1Lzxeemu4djDaNxaAQx98EFgutbRxQ/s320/Celine+burgundy+platforms.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div style="line-height: 150%;">Words fail- I love, love, love this chunky platform by <em>C<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">é</span>line. </em>In a parallel universe I've sold a body part and am recovering whilst wearing these.</div><div align="left" class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqfCxsNNaD1CxwFZleAbwwizoNFC9lvx3iRibBKlHScvLVrkLY-r9ESIajSQoGmaqwbnGNc0gXKItCDxm4qtoJ2zyiYyfFIV_-W2kt4f_jKheYEnyUOqR_ar7xZFhUuxGYm09kvbsWSppR/s1600/Navy+wide+brim+floppy+hat.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqfCxsNNaD1CxwFZleAbwwizoNFC9lvx3iRibBKlHScvLVrkLY-r9ESIajSQoGmaqwbnGNc0gXKItCDxm4qtoJ2zyiYyfFIV_-W2kt4f_jKheYEnyUOqR_ar7xZFhUuxGYm09kvbsWSppR/s320/Navy+wide+brim+floppy+hat.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div style="line-height: 150%;"></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Navy, floppy, wide brim hat: I really just want one to smack everyone within a 10 meter radius when turning my head to take a sip of my bevy. They are completely obnoxious but serve as a fantastic "Do Not Disturb" sign whilst on holiday.</span></div><div align="left" class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEguVATQ-iDWzvlh8Eg_2gkaGpNpqRXCpD6rb4U1EC0h7euvpcppoQ5juKsJXeqKYtksjpjsuew75BbFAD8cx39HmvESh7l1LQes5NdIMrggrDdAZd49LVoUAKR2z6R_pArf7PKzkNb6W5mD/s1600/kylie+kwong+cook+book.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEguVATQ-iDWzvlh8Eg_2gkaGpNpqRXCpD6rb4U1EC0h7euvpcppoQ5juKsJXeqKYtksjpjsuew75BbFAD8cx39HmvESh7l1LQes5NdIMrggrDdAZd49LVoUAKR2z6R_pArf7PKzkNb6W5mD/s320/kylie+kwong+cook+book.jpg" width="253" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I love looking through cook books but don't expect a meal. Kylie Kwong makes Chinese food look effortless and flavoursome. I'm also obsessed with Jamie Oliver, Nigel Slater, The Two Fat Ladies, Giorgio Locatelli and Bill Granger.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjSC3jEQ594MwCr8VYqnrc-OVznEwyDvQZwQd9Uty8_Bf1BnBACLNEx5kpYTKVXGEbE60pu6wmxqJU3uCSPqsWKFDhWDhy-7IXFkGGO_7ARCCH288mWQjNvw2SjmVeZGI2ayITpqzpbQDgn/s1600/Rechargeable+Batteries%252C+available+at+CNA.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="236" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjSC3jEQ594MwCr8VYqnrc-OVznEwyDvQZwQd9Uty8_Bf1BnBACLNEx5kpYTKVXGEbE60pu6wmxqJU3uCSPqsWKFDhWDhy-7IXFkGGO_7ARCCH288mWQjNvw2SjmVeZGI2ayITpqzpbQDgn/s320/Rechargeable+Batteries%252C+available+at+CNA.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"> </div><div class="separator" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;">I desperately need rechargeable batteries that come with a charger. My camera hasn't been put to use recently because ordinary batteries take a few snapshots before they call it quits. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"> </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgZ8HQZEz0MQBwRkGv9fmSTzP-cHa9B9yM8Q0TiK472hSGCYDu558Rfy3nfCD-YALZVbGpoJiTrZS7sHiUy6FB2y9fneeefGgTDfIQkPQi0VAU7Pha-jBkBcSaHV4uevU4EQrQ3UsTgVec/s1600/Coffee+Plunger.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgZ8HQZEz0MQBwRkGv9fmSTzP-cHa9B9yM8Q0TiK472hSGCYDu558Rfy3nfCD-YALZVbGpoJiTrZS7sHiUy6FB2y9fneeefGgTDfIQkPQi0VAU7Pha-jBkBcSaHV4uevU4EQrQ3UsTgVec/s320/Coffee+Plunger.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I've gone through THREE coffee plungers. <em>Woolworths</em> has a lovely <em>Russell Hobbs</em> presser but I fear it will break before I make it to the till. So, maybe if someone else buys it for me...</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6tABF0tdlHCKzh3is6LGE7ECezkIplP3yQX82_Ps12ObXVFEIZ4KqP0Lbeq5TW4baF4-k0AresAMofBW94WZcDrbfArvmm2o6Koq1PU0UpYevn3vTfudR-wzKSsmMqjpiIifoNAIi3fKX/s1600/lindt.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="220" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6tABF0tdlHCKzh3is6LGE7ECezkIplP3yQX82_Ps12ObXVFEIZ4KqP0Lbeq5TW4baF4-k0AresAMofBW94WZcDrbfArvmm2o6Koq1PU0UpYevn3vTfudR-wzKSsmMqjpiIifoNAIi3fKX/s320/lindt.png" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">And what goes better than a cup of strong coffee and some <em>Lindt Intense Dark Chocolate</em>? I believe anything and anyone that says dark chocolate contributes to improved cardiovasucular health. If you're feeling extra generous, there is a <a href="http://www.jhb.chocolatestudio.co.za/courses.php">Lindt Chocolate Studio</a> with truffle making courses.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">If nothing elese, publishing this modest wish list brings me one step closer to owning at least one of these items. Wishing you a holiday season filled with plenty of middle class concerns like late night Christmas shopping and deciding what wrapping theme to go with.</div><div style="line-height: 150%;"></div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-43442312605914872802011-12-01T00:24:00.000-08:002011-12-08T00:09:57.794-08:00Getting to Zero<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">I’m torn between two hot topics that require equal attention so I’m tweeting about COP 17 and blogging about World AIDS Day. <o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Ironically, HIV/AIDS is not a sexy topic. It’s an attention seeking, conceited and expensive devil. It’s almost 30 years since the first recognised cases of AIDS.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It resulted in a surge of rumours, theories and myths which we’re still battling to slay. It’s not a gay disease, it didn’t originate from a bestial encounter in the depths of Africa, it doesn’t only infect poor black heterosexuals and a hug, kiss or handshake will not jeopardise your health. It’s an exhausting battle. The same pamphlets that were handed out in the 90’s could still be handed out 20 years later. The same movies and documentaries made years ago are still relevant. Millions of <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Rands, Dollars, Pounds, Euros, Pulas, Rupees, Pesos and Shillings have been poured into AIDS awareness campaigns. </span><br />
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Uganda began promoting sexual behaviour change in 1986. </span><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; mso-ansi-language: EN;">President Kaunda of Zambia announced that his son had died of AIDS in 1987. In 1993 an estimated 9 million adults in sub-Saharan Africa were infected with HIV and 1.7 million with AIDS. These numbers continue to fluctuate between bad and worse. In 1997, Fela Kuti, Nigeria’s most famous musician died of Kaposi’s Sarcoma; an AIDS-related illness. In 1999 <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Nevirapine</i>, a new single dose drug for the future prevention of mother-to- child transmission in Africa. In 2002, Botswana began Africa’s first national AIDS treatment programme. Despite this, according to the <em>World Health Organization</em> 2.7 million people are newly infected worldwide.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">National radio stations were overflowing with callers eager to tell their stories about positive living and encouraging others to do the same. With the support of friends, family and a non discriminative society many told stories of how they are fighting this attention seeking, conceited and expensive devil. In the time I’ve taken to write this blog over a thousand tweets with the hash tag <em>World AIDS Day</em> have been sent. Ordinary people, organisations, campaign groups and activists encouraging zero discrimination, zero AIDS related deaths and zero new infections. Apathy in itself is a disease so (in the words of Charlie Sheen) in some respects we're "winning".</span></div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-30079929147368549122011-11-23T05:13:00.000-08:002011-11-23T07:33:48.556-08:00Words, thoughts, music and art<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<div style="line-height: 150%;">The media declared the 22<sup>nd</sup> of November 2011 as "Black Tuesday"; a campaign against the <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Protection of State Information Bill</b>. Is it just another suburban middle class concern?</div><br />
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<div style="line-height: 150%;">Political analyst<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"> <a href="http://www.businessday.co.za/articles/Content.aspx?id=159255">Steven Friedman</a></i> writes in the Business Day: “If we want to protect our freedoms, we need to make sure they are not seen as the concern of only a few”. He believes the Bill has been misconstrued as it will not hamper investigative journalism or prevent the media from reporting on corruption.</div><br />
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<div style="line-height: 150%;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The <a href="http://www.nelsonmandela.org/index.php/news/article/the_protection_of_information_bill/">Nelson Mandela Centre of Memory</a> </i>said South African’s should be worried because the Bill trumps <span lang="EN">any legislation inconsistent with it. Furthermore “The Secrecy Bill provides that a classified record must be declassified before it is released. If it is released prior to declassification both the person releasing and the person receiving the information may be subject to criminal prosecution.” <o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
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<div style="line-height: 150%;"><span lang="EN">The <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><a href="http://www.sanef.org.za/news/entry/SANEF_statement_on_the_outcome_National_Assembly_vote_on_the_Protection_of_/">South African National Editors’ Forum</a> </i>views the bill as <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">“</i>a danger to democracy, and a threat to their rights. We had hoped MPs would hear the clamour at the gates of the legislature, but they chose to stop their ears.”<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
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<div style="line-height: 150%;"><span lang="EN">Various civil society groups, media houses, opposition parties and even church representatives are enraged. They are of the view that the bill will serve to protect corrupt leaders and bad governance. </span></div><br />
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<div style="line-height: 150%;">I watched half of the <em>American Music Awards</em>. I reached breaking point and went to bed when <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><a href="http://www.enriqueiglesias.com/">Enrique Iglesious</a></i> tried to con us into thinking he was still relevant with his good looks and a choir. Anyways, this is not completely unrelated to the topic. The bill may have been passed. It may serve to cover up indiscretions (Don’t you love that word? It’s so polite). It may require media houses to start budgeting for more frequent meetings with lawyers. It may suggest that democracy is something we aspire towards yet never fully achieve.</div><br />
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<div style="line-height: 150%;">However, Osip Mandlestam, Soviet poet and literary critic still wrote poetry under Stalin’s totalitarian regime. Miriam Makeba, Hugh Masekela and Vusi Mahlasela still sang their hearts out against the cruel apartheid regime. Dada and other surrealists continued to paint the sad aftermath of World War I. Kenyan author Ngugi wa Thiong'o wrote even in detention for raising political consciousness in 1977. We still have words, thoughts, music, art in all its forms and of course, Enrique. The internet alone has multipied available forums for frank discussion and revelations. The Bill does not even begin to threaten freedom of speech... in my opinion.</div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-1674704908173474882011-11-15T01:13:00.000-08:002011-11-15T01:14:26.699-08:00Hardcore Tattoo<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQc8IZIiZrbh9RfE1FhSXki7i28j1rqpLomHxLihXdyxP0lsfgXoh87ss_S_batRyqJpdqHOjlmtW-TlwXC4XkcE38A4-ADvhV_fE5357WLM9x7G9W6oFcvyX7DG18XLaQtmn3amQYUEj5/s1600/508281_460s.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="186" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQc8IZIiZrbh9RfE1FhSXki7i28j1rqpLomHxLihXdyxP0lsfgXoh87ss_S_batRyqJpdqHOjlmtW-TlwXC4XkcE38A4-ADvhV_fE5357WLM9x7G9W6oFcvyX7DG18XLaQtmn3amQYUEj5/s320/508281_460s.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br />
Found this picture on "<a href="http://www.placeforthefunny.blogspot.com/">The Place of Funny Things</a>" yesterday afternoon. It has had me in stitches since.<br />
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PS. Happy Birthday to my mom, I won't be getting a tattoo anytime soon.Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-27029563239184930852011-11-14T02:33:00.000-08:002011-11-14T03:45:08.083-08:00For the Love of H2O<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-ZA;">Last Monday I fell asleep at my desk after lunch. I mean like a proper snooze fest interrupted by the two people I share an office with. That’s got nothing to do with this blog post but I found it amusing. I blame it on the heat!<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-ZA;">This leaves me a little boggled about people who insist on buying bottled water. <i>Evian</i> spelt backwards is <i>Naive</i>. Rumour has it the company started by filling bottles with tap water and selling it to naive consumers. I’m sure it’s not true but I have no proof that any bottled water comes from some fancy, untouched and pristine spring. But, I do know that South Africa’s bottled water industry is coining <span style="color: windowtext;"><a href="http://nbws.org/">R1.7billion a year</a></span>. That being said, if you’re travelling out of the country or are in an unfamiliar region, you shouldn’t assume that the water has been through a million tests before reaching the tap. According to <span style="color: windowtext;"><a href="http://water.org/">water.org</a></span> nearly <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">ONE BILLION</b> people have no access to safe drinking water.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-ZA;">For <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">clarity</b>, what does it mean when a bottle is labelled “<a href="http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-spring-water.htm">spring water</a>”? After a little rain or snow the water collects underground and rises to the surface of the earth and forms a <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">spring</i>. It goes through a natural filtering process and is different from tap water because it contains no chemicals. Sometimes, a borehole is drilled to extract the water from the earth’s surface.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
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</tbody></table><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Last night was my first television debut as a blogger. It was... strange seeing as I would much rather be <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">asking</i> the questions than <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">answering</i> them. Whilst watching the show, all I could think was: </span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">“my nose looks really big!”</span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;"> <o:p></o:p></span> <br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">In future, I hope to be a little bit more prepared, it really isn’t easy answering what this blog is about. In the first few posts I had a clearer idea but if you ask me now, you might receive a long pause and blank stare. Then you get questions like “How do you define South Africa’s middle class?” At which point I refer them to an <a href="http://www.afdb.org/en/news-and-events/article/africas-middle-class-triples-to-more-than-310m-over-past-30-years-due-to-economic-growth-and-rising-job-culture-reports-afdb-7986/">African Development Bank paper</a> which states that Africa’s middle class is made up of those earning an average of R 30,423/ $ 3900 and above per annum- completely controversial! <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Then people get intense and ask: “What are you trying to achieve? What is the overall aim?” and I get all flustered like <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">“What am I trying to achieve?”</i> as if I know what I’m going to say.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">As much as this blog is about phones that do everything but make breakfast or the dullness of not having an electric gate, I really want to use that to draw attention to the more pertinent stuff. The stuff that makes me thankful for living a privileged life and aware that it is by no means a God given right. I have to continue working hard to live above the poverty line and even harder to help those that I can.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Whilst on set I took advantage of the opportunity and turned the recorder on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/people/Penny-Lebyane/782124281">Penny Lebyane</a>. She is the host of the popular talk show <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Motswako</i> on <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">SABC 2.</i> Here is how the interview went, she seems to share the same sentiments:<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;"><em>Phakamani:</em> What really irks you about South African middle class? <o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;"><em>Penny:</em> Anyone living in the dream that the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">whole</i> of South Africa is a big city. There’s actually rural parts of this country! Quite frankly, 80% of it is rural and people don’t realise that so their concerns are based on </span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%;">“Oh the potholes!”</span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;"> –There are people who just need water... sometimes when you have a <sub>little</sub> <sup>high</sup> platform try to speak on behalf of those people because they need more voices.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;"><em>Phakamani:</em> What would you say is your contribution? Is it being thoughtful about it...<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;"><em>Penny:</em> My contribution is, (as much as I live in the city) to try and look at things from a point of view of someone who is not in my situation. It makes me very appreciative of what I have but then at the same time it makes me not to be arrogant. Because you’ve got everything you just think you want more, more, more! I want to say actually I’m grateful for what I have now. It’s just about thinking about that but it’s actually getting in my car and going to those places and contributing to the betterment of those areas. Whether it’s through talking to young kids in a school to say it’s good to live out of a village but don’t forget the village that you come from.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;"><em>Phakamani:</em> What is the difference between you and the people who lack the ability to think that way?<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;"><em>Penny:</em> We can get lost in the lights, in the city, in “<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">my</b> life”, “<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">my</b> this and that”. I try to remind myself that I come from that rural background. Not to just define myself as a city girl and that’s it but to embrace all elements of my background: the rural and the township parts and the fact that now I’ve got the opportunity to be exposed to what middle class lifestyle is but ultimately that’s not what I am... it’s something to remind yourself every day.</span></div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-84487737616787966812011-10-26T02:23:00.000-07:002011-10-26T02:26:58.398-07:00December body<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">My body conditioning routine which only works if I stick to it!</td></tr>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Without sounding too snooty, one of the privileges of this middle class life is that you get to choose what you put into your body. December is just around the corner and you either want to be bikini or summer frock ready. Who wants to be carrying extra pounds in this heat? The days of comfort eating should be left behind with the winter chill. <o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">I declare, on <u style="text-underline: dotted;">26 October 2011</u> that I, <u style="text-underline: dotted;">Phakamani Sivuyile Lisa</u> am not at my best weight. The pot belly is ever present and my thighs need a break from each other. There’s no one to blame except myself because just last night I had 2 jacket potatoes with sour cream and lamb curry for dinner. As if a light salad and grilled chicken breast wouldn’t have sufficed. <o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">A few changes need to be made. Firstly, I need to incorporate some exercise into my life. I have a little body conditioning routine which I adopt and abandon at random. Today, I pledge to be consistent. Nothing worse than somebody who insists they eat celery sticks and gym frequently but remains the same size.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Secondly, I need to let go of my <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Chocolate Cornetto McFlurry </i>obsession. It started with the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">KFC Chocolate Brownie Avalalanche. </i>It’s made up of chocolate sauce, 4 mini brownies and soft serve ice cream. For this I blame photographer and fellow blogger <a href="http://mapodile.myfotojournal.com/">Mapodile Mkhabela</a>. Then another friend of mine, <a href="http://www.facebook.com/UnleashedFashion#!/UnleashedFashion">Amy Criticos</a> (designer and childhood friend) introduced me to the world of chocolate sauce, chocolate chips, bits of sugar cone and soft serve under the family of McFlurry’s. You can imagine the irreparable damage such indulgence has.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Did Kate Moss say “nothing tastes as good as skinny feels”? She clearly hasn’t had 800g sweet and sticky pork ribs in a while but then again, she’s not trying to drop 5kg’s in the next month. So, no more <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Woolies</i> meals or take-away for lunch. It’s back to whole wheat bread, avo, lettuce, peppadews and pastrami. Yogurt and juice in the morning and tonight I’m doing sushi for dinner.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">This is not a prescribed diet. I’m just trying to lessen my salt, sugar and carb (carbohydrate) in take without completely removing them. I have a serious love affair with the spud. However, I’ve watched enough health shows to know that water, vegetables, fruit and exercise are crucial for healthy living. Here’s to my December body and lowering the risks of getting diabetes, blood pressure, cancer, heart disease, depression and gout amongst other things.</span></div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-87495787366229243962011-10-19T00:30:00.000-07:002011-10-19T03:05:17.403-07:00Kids Rule!<div style="background: white; line-height: 150%; vertical-align: top;"><span lang="EN" style="mso-ansi-language: EN;">Hi folks,<br />
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As part of my job, I’ve been watching videos which have been collected throughout Eastern and Southern Africa.<br />
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A lady from Zimbabwe said she went to a rural school in the Masvingo province and the kids were desperate for something to play with. They provided the school with balls for soccer and netball- school attendance has since increased. It just struck me how much of a difference a ball can make when you’re a young-un.<br />
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Children all over the continent are having the burden of looking after their parents due to HIV and AIDS, some have been orphaned and are passed from one relative to the next. Some are the sole supporters of the household. I’ll admit that the media often neglects the good stories that come out of Africa. But we can’t ignore that millions of kids are survivors of a very cruel reality. Many kids are exposed to rape, abuse, disease, hunger and other social issues related to poverty. I would love to take them away from all of these nasty conditions and place them in Neverland. <br />
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Until such a time, I’ll be nagging all family, friends and friends of friends to donate any toys, clothes or books for Christmas.<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin;">I’ll be collecting goodies every Saturday (6/13/20/27) of November 2011</span> in Johannesburg. Saving one starfish at a time type-stuff.<br />
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Any help with time or donations are welcome. I'll start with a few teddy bears and my copy of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/James-Giant-Peach-Roald-Dahl/dp/0140374248">James and the Giant Peach</a>.<br />
Many thanks x<br />
Ps. Please also suggest any prefered childrens homes which are deserving of your kind gesture</span></div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-49654100084427450442011-10-18T00:12:00.000-07:002011-10-18T00:12:16.314-07:00Autocorrect<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">My spelling has gone from shocking to atrocious. I realised this when I spelt <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">champagne</i> like <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">champaign</i>. It was partly autocorrects fault but it took a second look before I realised something in the name of bubbly was horribly wrong. I’m not even half way through this blog post and I’m already debating the use of ‘spelled’ and ‘spelt’. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">I used to be really good at this spelling thing- above average even but now <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">where</i>’s and <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">were</i>’s get lost in autocorrect. I drop important words in my speech. I speak in direct translations from my vernacular and I add <em><a href="http://twitter.com/#!/middleccblog">Twitter</a></em> hashtags like “<em>death by</em>” “<em>smh</em>” and “<em>that awkward moment when</em>”. I'm not sure I really know what <em>awkward</em> means anymore. I run out of vocabulary and say things like “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">well that’s a higaldy- pigaldy</i>” instead of “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">I see you’ve gotten yourself into a spot of bother</i>”. I use ellipses without discretion...<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Years of studying the English language and literature, poetry collections by Keats, Mills and Wordsworth and it all lies in the cold hands of autocorrect as well as red and green zig- zags. Could it be the end of my writing career? What will future generations say about our grammar?<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">There is a website dedicated to these language faux pas called <a href="http://damnyouautocorrect.com/"><span style="color: blue;">Damn You Autocorrect</span></a>. We need an adult spelling bee. Stat!</span></div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-52582388766644200142011-10-10T02:58:00.000-07:002011-10-10T02:58:16.573-07:00Light + Love<div style="line-height: 150%;">I've become near obsessed with my orchids. My first one was rescued from the trash. My mom pronounced it dead after it had lost its flowers. Two months later, it's taller, stronger and more beautiful than ever! I have been documenting its growth on my celli and realise that with a little light, love and pampering: joy comes in the morning. </div><div style="line-height: 150%;"><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">I'm stuck in pansy-mode (<a href="http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=pansy">definition 2</a>) after the <a href="http://www.coldplay.com/"><span style="color: blue;">Coldplay</span></a> concert and repeatedly singing <em>"..the light's will guide you home, and ignite your soul, and I will try to fix you".</em> Sometime in the next week will be the return of a more serious post :| </span></div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-21665031257647140132011-10-07T05:12:00.000-07:002011-10-07T05:12:26.029-07:00Happy Friday<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1277540082l/1948110.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1277540082l/1948110.jpg" width="206" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; mso-ansi-language: EN;"></span></i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; mso-ansi-language: EN;">"We need other people, not in order to stay alive, but to be fully human: to be affectionate, funny, playful, to be generous. How genuine is my capacity for love if there is no one for me to love, to laugh with, to treat tenderly, to be trusted by? I can love an idea or a vision, but I can’t throw my arms around it. Unless there is someone to whom I can give my gifts, in whose hands I can entrust my dreams, who will forgive me my deformities, my aberrations, to whom I can speak the unspeakable, then I am not human, I am a thing, a gadget that works but has no ashes"</span></i></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; text-align: right;"><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Notes-Love-Courage-Hugh-Prather/dp/0385127723">-Notes on Love and Courage by Hugh Prather</a></span></div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-59007825486777130402011-10-04T05:55:00.000-07:002011-10-05T01:30:03.646-07:00City of Gold<span style="color: #2a2a2a; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Over the weekend, I got in touch with the city of Johannesburg. It's safe to say there's plenty of gold. <br />
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After living in a small town for 5 years, I thought I would have to come back to Joburg and conform to the club scene or preferably stay at home. Going to clubs brings tears to my eyes: the only pair of heels I have hurts. I can't jerk, dougie or pop and lock. I certainly don't have R60 to pay for a drink and the attitude of club- goers stinks! Guys will push in front of you and girls will stare you down for chipped nail polish (-it was just that one time). <br />
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So my friend Steph and I went on a little search for something more hippie- chic and less 6- inch heels. <br />
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We paid a visit to the much talked about <a href="http://www.neighbourgoodsmarket.co.za/">NeighbourGoods Market</a> on Juta Street. There were cakes that looked like edible ornaments, sweet and savoury crepes, Spanish paella, homemade lemonade, flavoured brews, organic vegetables, fresh flowers, vintage clothing and I had a refreshing pineapple mojito that tickled my taste buds.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><br />
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</tbody></table><span style="color: #2a2a2a; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Just a hop and a skip from the market is <a href="http://www.joburg.org.za/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=5881&catid=88&Itemid=266">70 Juta Street</a> design hub. Historically, Braamfontein used to be part of Joburgs thriving business district. Over the years it lost its popularity as companies moved north. The area has recently been revamped and is shedding its seedy reputation. Totally worth the visit if you’re looking to define what South African design is about.</span><br />
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</tbody></table><span style="color: #2a2a2a; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Over the <em>Nelson Mandela Bridge</em> is <em>Newtown</em>. It's the location of <a href="http://www.sa-venues.com/attractionsga/museum-africa.htm">Museum Africa</a> where we went for a book launch and reading session. Chicago author, <em>Yorli Huff</em> shared a few passages from her memoir titled <em>‘Veil of Victory’</em>. Yorli went from a difficult childhood to working undercover as a Special Drug Agent. Parallel to this, was a dysfunctional marriage as well as racism and discrimination in the work place. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> Everyday has been a challenge to triumph over adversity. The book has been described in many ways but to me this is a story about how the scorn and strength of a woman is something to be feared and admired. </span></span><br />
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<div style="line-height: 150%;">Generally, everyone is allowed one same sex crush. I have three- Julia Roberts, Christina Hendricks and Tamara Dey. In my head, we're all best friends. </div><br />
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<div style="line-height: 150%;">Based on previous interviews, I think Julia is so down to earth. Her smile and that giant vein on her forehead add such character. I fell in love with her after watching 'My Best Friends Wedding' on repeat for 3 years and then proceeded to watch every movie she's made. Even when everybody was hating on 'Eat Pray Love' (the movie), I thought she did a sterling job and it was actually the script that was bad. Should I meet her one day, I will let her know that she did the best she could with an average script.</div><br />
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<div style="line-height: 150%;">Christina is the lovely lass from Mad Men. I watched season 1- 4 of this series in 10 days. Initially I wasn't a fan because I thought Mad Men was monotone and I couldn't relate to any of the characters. There was no Meredith Grey to irritate me or Bree Olson to chuckle at. But I grew to love and hate the 60's because of this series. Hated it because women who weren't married by 25 were labeled outcasts. Loved it because men wore 3- piece fitted suites and hats everyday. But back to Christina, her character is all-woman. </div><br />
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<div style="line-height: 150%;">Tamara is stylish, groovy and has (only what I can describe as) 'pazzaz'. She was uber cool as queen of kwaito and now uber coolest as queen of disco/rock/dance. She's my singing and dancing alter- ego. On Friday 26 I got to meet Tamara Dey. I asked her to share her biggest middle class concern. I fumbled and mumbled around the question but it's generally what happens when you write better than you speak. I wish I didn't have to write down my thoughts for them to be clear! </div><br />
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<div style="line-height: 150%;">Tamara stated the high levels of unemployment and reckless taxi drivers as her biggest MCC's. This lead to a discussion on South Africa's public transport system- or lack thereof. She recognises the efforts being made by metro police and the department of transport to clamp down on drunk driving. But her biggest grievance is that there is still no 'reliable' and 'affordable' public transport system that allows the youth to party responsibly. "People are not going to stop going out" said Ms Dey. </div><br />
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<div style="line-height: 150%;">(She'll be performing at St Johns College (Jhb) and Rhapsody's (Pta) with her band <a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Flash-Republic/49906549841?v=wall">Flash Republic</a> this weekend. The bands music is also available on iTunes and <a href="http://omusic.dstv.com/"><span style="color: blue;">Omusic</span></a>)</div><br />
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<div style="line-height: 150%;">All of these women have remained humble even after the fame and multiple hugs from strangers. From Julia, I've learned that wild laughter is a daily necessity. From Christina I've learned to own and embrace my femininity and from Tamara I've learned that sources of structure and stability are crucial for a fresh perspective.</div></div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-23800741083420820732011-09-19T16:35:00.001-07:002011-10-12T01:59:11.346-07:00Sweet Death<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<div style="line-height: 150%;">I have had two encounters with death. If you are a pessimist, everyday is a meeting with death but these two events almost resulted in a rather undignified ending.</div><br />
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<div style="line-height: 150%;">The first incident was at home. It was a warm afternoon, after a relatively busy day at high school. I went around the house performing my chores. You know, like back in the day when kids were told to stop watching Bold and the Beautiful and do something productive? </div><br />
<div style="line-height: 150%;">On my way to close the living room curtains, I helped myself to an Endearmint. They're those lovely, milky- white, chewy mints that could break your tooth or as in my case, bring you closer to your fate. Upon reflection, the first three letters of Endearmint were a great warning.</div><br />
<div style="line-height: 150%;">Instead of putting it in my mouth to quietly suck on, I tossed it in the air, put my hands behind my back and attempted to catch it with my mouth wide open. It was a trend I had picked up from watching <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">pantsula dancers</i> and it had worked before with peanuts and grapes. Based on previous success, this should have been no different. However, as opposed to settling on my tongue, the mint sealed my wind pipe. It was a perfect fit. It was then that my first fight with death began. I raged against my last gasp, ran to my mother’s bedroom, tried to signal the problem whilst gasping, choking and crying. She shoved her fingers down my throat and told me to keep swallowing. It was the longest 3 minutes of my life before the combination of water, my mom's fingers and a brief prayer, sent the mint lower down my throat and allowed for some air. Should this not have worked, my mom (also a doctor), confessed that she was on her way to the kitchen to fetch the sharpest knife and perform a small operation that would allow me to breath. Every time I remember this incident, I imagine a tombstone written: ''Here lies Phakamani, she died a sweet death''.</div><br />
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<div style="line-height: 150%;">The second encounter was a little more serious. I was walking to campus just before midday to do research and print notes. I walked past a tall, middle-aged man, wearing dark sunglasses, a sport hat, jeans and a drimac. Nothing out of the usual except, why is a middle- aged man soaking up the sun instead of clocking in some hours at work midday? </div><br />
<div style="line-height: 150%;">I walked past him feeling a little nervous about the tattoo on the back of his hand. I have nothing against tattoos but I'd watched too many documentaries about gang related tattoos. A minute after I had passed him, he ran up against me. I think it was a failed attempt at snatching my bag. He walked in front of me towards campus and I slowed down behind him. I ignored the whispers telling me to cross the road or to walk in the opposite direction. As he reached the top of the cross road leading to campus, he turned around and pulled out a thick knife with a steel handle. I turned around to run, felt my sandal’s slipping off, screaming help! He chased me for about a meter and pulled my right shoulder down with his free hand. I was on my back, against the tar throwing my purse at him and pushing the knife away from stomach. Luckily, it was a busy road so onlookers came to my rescue. The punk ran off without a single thing and he was chased after by private security guards doing their morning routes. They found him cowering in the drains. </div><br />
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<div style="line-height: 150%;">I was left wondering where that big puddle on the tar came from? Turns out I was so scared; I lost control of my bladder. I have to thank my Bridget Jones inspired underwear for keeping my frock dry. </div><br />
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<div style="line-height: 150%;">What is the point of the now common middle class existential crisis? A life made up of angst, fear, numbness and despair even with an environmentally- friendly roof over your head and beef medallions in your stomach. You see my friends, unlike life, death is short. It's a mint blocking your windpipe or a brush with a jail bird on parole.</div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-49960131298598906022011-09-05T09:50:00.000-07:002011-10-12T02:03:16.000-07:00Vacation<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Greetings darlings, excuse my absenteeism. I was on vacation for two weeks and then returned to two more weeks of anxiety, stress and heartbreak. This too shall pass and nothing makes me feel better than writing. In other words, I'm back for your reading pleasure!<o:p></o:p></span> <br />
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Let's rewind to the beginning of August: I had planned a vacation to Zimbabwe (<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harare">Harare</a>). It began with a trip on the <i><a href="http://www.gautrain.co.za/">Gautrain</a></i>. I don't remember the last time I was so excited. Pity I was travelling alone so I don't have pictures of my stupid grin spread from cheek to cheek. The <em>Gautrain</em> blew my mind but I couldn't help think, I was one of very few South African's who would experience the simplicity and thrill. Later, I found out that thieves were stealing the cables required to run the train. The truth is you can't build a billion- rand project that will only serve a single- digit percentage of the population.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Within minutes I was starring at the Johannesburg Airport. Or should I call it a mall that happens to have a landing field? The energy at any large airport sparks off some exponential excitement. Even if you're dropping someone off, you'll wish they had packed you in their luggage.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">The flight from Johannesburg to Harare is under 2 hours. That is just enough time for a light meal and bevy. Followed by a little arm-rest tussle whilst paging through a magazine and maybe some polite conversation with a stranger after a snooze. Compare that with an 18 hour bus ride to the same destination that includes a sleepless night and a 2-4 hour stop at the border in which you pay for your sins. I have no personal experience of this but I have been given a detailed warning and I believe the testimonies. </span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">True to the nature of a middle class vacation, I had no worries upon my arrival. I had a warm hug to welcome me, comfortable accomodation and a packed itinerary.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Harare is vibrant but dull and peaceful but slow. The city is bustling but the buildings need a lick of paint and you can walk late at night without feeling threatened but there are only a few places you can go before feeling like a goldfish in a mini bowl. Could somebody please switch on the street lights so I can see where I'm going? Strangely, I find all of this charming and familiar. It has quaint spots like the <em>Avondale</em> flea market which is open every day and the <em>Borrowdale</em> flea market which is open on Sundays. The best Chinese Food is served at <i>Shangri La</i>; I walked out with noodles in my hair, beef strips up my sleeve and fried prawn in my shoes. If you're interested in night life, there are a variety of bars, pubs and clubs to satisfy that. The weather is fantastic and allows for summertime bafoonery all year round.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">I suppose the real charm in Harare is carried by its inhabitants. You never know if you're going to get a hand shake or a hug but you always feel welcome. This might also stem into a conversation in which I explain that not all South African's are xenophobic. As a neo-Pan African (whatever that means) I see that we all carry a nervous condition. In Zimbabwe, daily life carries on as best as possible under President Robert Mugabe's authoritarian rule, high prices and unscheduled blackouts. If I haven't made it clear before, let it be known that South Africa pretends to be a thriving democracy but only a few get to experience it. So similarly, South African’s continue to make the best out of poor service delivery, false promises, corruption and projects like the <i>Gautrain</i> which only serve a few. Both countries are in dire need of a follow- up revolution. The cracks are evident: South African’s are restless and Zimbabwean authorities are scrambling for a post- Mugabe solution.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%;">Despite this, I can't wait to see the rest of Africa. I bow down to the City of Harare. Next vacation spot? Kenya!</span></div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-24376637522537024362011-07-29T04:25:00.000-07:002011-07-29T04:25:44.066-07:00Multiplying<style>
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.simpsoncrazy.com/content/pictures/family/SimpsonsFamily2.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://www.simpsoncrazy.com/content/pictures/family/SimpsonsFamily2.gif" width="291" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: center;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman";"> </span><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">We are a family!</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">Let me start by saying thank you. I read all comments, tweets and emails and I’m encouraged. My ramblings seem to speak to many of you and I hope you will carry on reading. Without further delay, this weeks’ middle class concern is “Should I adopt a child?”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">The world population is doubling every two years. South Africa has just reached the 50 million people mark. Logically- no one should be reproducing. On a superficial level, it means more traffic, longer waiting lists for the best schools, less personal space and a smaller chance of finding the right size during sales. Environmentally it means less land, water and food and more pollution and waste. Socially and politically it means, more unemployed youth and more tax to service the 14 million plus South African’s on social grants. It makes me nervous. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">Before I get cussed out for linking adoption to overpopulation let me add that there are many factors to consider before assuming the parenting of another being. Every child needs a loving home and parents. With so many unfit parents, I believe there should be a licencing process in which couples apply to some greater authority for permission to have children. I say this in jest but humans have done very well in multiplying and not so well in assuming responsibility. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">I am not ready to have my own children but I think adoption is worth considering. Many South African children are in desperate need of families. If I’ve stirred any curiosity, visit <a href="http://www.adoptionsa.co.za/who_we_are.htm">Adoption SA</a> or <a href="http://adoption.org.za/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=30&Itemid=2">Adoption Voice SA</a> for more information. </span></div>Phakamanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16817513290578611729noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7123377870638535996.post-22432302240388057792011-07-25T01:27:00.000-07:002011-07-25T01:37:56.173-07:00Lala ngoxolo<style>
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://a8.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v2563/10/122/583626474/n583626474_1982371_8024049.jpg?dl=1" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://a8.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v2563/10/122/583626474/n583626474_1982371_8024049.jpg?dl=1" width="320" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">I can't explain the all black attire and sunglasses at a wedding except to say my uncle was barely stylish but greatly loving</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><br />
<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman";">My family is from rural Eastern Cape. I mean gravel road, sheep and shepherd, valleys and hills kind of rural. I spent some of my holidays there as a young’un. Pulling goats teats, chasing chickens, listening to battery operated radio and by all means avoiding the long drop. My uncle lived in the serenity of these blue sky’s and green hills. When I visited, it was a true meeting of country and city mouse. I would trade him stories about the metal bird we had flown in for a lesson in herding. He joked that he had once been hit on the head by human droppings from a passing plane. I dedicate one of my favourite poems to him, in the hope that he will dance with the daffodils for all of eternity. Lala ngoxolo malume (RIP Uncle):</span></div><table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="MsoNormalTable" style="width: 100%;"><tbody>
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</div><div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 10pt;">I Wandered Lonely as a Cloud</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 10pt;"></span></div></td> </tr>
</tbody></table><div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><i><span style="font-family: Times; font-size: 10pt;">By William Wordsworth</span></i></div><table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="MsoNormalTable" style="width: 100%;"><tbody>
<tr style="height: 298.55pt;"> <td style="height: 298.55pt; padding: 0cm; width: 30pt;" valign="top" width="30"></td> <td style="height: 298.55pt; padding: 0cm; width: 100%;" valign="top" width="100%"><div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 10pt;">I wandered lonely as a cloud<br />
That floats on high o'er vales and hills,<br />
When all at once I saw a crowd,<br />
A host, of golden daffodils;<br />
Beside the lake, beneath the trees,<br />
Fluttering and dancing in the breeze.<br />
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Continuous as the stars that shine<br />
And twinkle on the milky way,<br />
They stretched in never-ending line<br />
Along the margin of a bay:<br />
Ten thousand saw I at a glance,<br />
Tossing their heads in sprightly dance.<br />
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The waves beside them danced; but they<br />
Out-did the sparkling waves in glee:<br />
A poet could not but be gay,<br />
In such a jocund company:<br />
I gazed---and gazed---but little thought<br />
What wealth the show to me had brought:<br />
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For oft, when on my <a href="http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/i-wandered-lonely-as-a-cloud/"><span style="color: black; text-decoration: none;">couch</span></a> I lie<br />
In vacant or in pensive mood,<br />
They flash upon that inward eye<br />
Which is the bliss of solitude;<br />
And then my heart with pleasure fills,<br />
And dances with the daffodils.</span></div></td> </tr>
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